To journey to the highest states of arousal, to surrender fully into pleasure, you must feel safe and secure.
To feel secure you must be able to trust your lover.
We trust gravity, we trust the water out of our taps, we trust our paycheck will come at the end of the month. If we couldn’t rely on these things, our daily anxiety level would spike.
To what degree do you trust your lover? Do trust your lover emotionally? What about physically? Does your body feel safe under your lover’s touch?
How do you cultivate deeper levels of trust in your relationship, so you can feel safe to experience high levels of arousal and surrender?